A Cup of Tea And Kindness

With everything that's going on it'snice just to offer a cup of tea and kindness. If you have a neighbor ,friend or family member who just wants to talk let them. Brew up a cup and let them express their thoughts and feelings.

This is what we need to do these days. We are a country - a world divided and we need to close up those rapidly opening seams. We need to be more understanding to the other side as well as those close to us.Food and drink brings us together. What tea works? Any one. Try a fruity one like Celestial Seasonings lemon zinger or their peach ones. Peppermint tea is also good, not just for soothing hurt or anxious feelings but for calming an upset stomach. Inviting someone over for a cup of tea is great if he or she wants to our their heart out. However a thermos of tea, especially iced works as well. Go to the beach or the park. There's something beautiful and distracting about nature whether it's waves crashing on the shore or looking up to see trees gently waving their branches.Of course coffee is always a good drink to have. Don't discount going out for a decadent cup of iced coffee. There's always Starbucks or Dunkin Donuts to supply you with a creamy , caramel or chocolate laced iced java. Even just a latte is a great boost. Sip and talk at a table or on a bench. You can also head to the park where it;s quieter and you have some privacy.

It's not just a cup of tea that's comforting. Kindness can be inviting someone over for a barbecue or a lovely meal eaten outdoors.The person may want to eat , especially comfort foods. Make hamburgers and hot dogs. Grill some veggies. Make that ultimate  comfort food s'mores. There is nothing more soothing than that yummy mix of toasted marshmallow oozing onto melty chocolate a top a graham cracker. Make it truly indulgent by using chocolate graham crackers and good dark chocolate. You could also just toast marshmallows over a fire pit. Another  way is baking  to go with that tea. We're in the middle of fruit season and that means cobblers, and crisps. Bring over a peach cobbler or blueberry crisp. Cobblers are easy to make so even the most novice baker can create something near perfection. It's just combining milk flour and sugar and placing it over melted butter in a cast iron skillet. The fruit, usually peaches, is added to this and tossed about in the flour. It's put into the oven and baked until the batter turns brown and crusty. A crisp is similar except it has oatmeal and cinnamon in it.

These are tough times. We're at each other's throats more often than not. It's take to share a cup of tea - a cup of coffee or a meal and be there for each other.