The Comfort Of Food

Food is magical. It can bring families together for a brief moment of harmony. A bite can trigger so many memories of good times.A recipe can bring together generations and even friends.It's amazing what a simple dish can do.

The one action that unites us with every creature on the planet is eating.We share our food with family, friends and even animal companions. Sharing lets them into our world and vice a versa. One of the best things is having a neighborhood buffet(and yes it can even be done on a chilly autumn days.) Also adventurous home chefs can try their hands at making za'atar and tamari. Have everyone bring a dish that means something to them,whether a family one they made with their mom or grandmother or the most
 successful meal they ever made. Dinners with are another way of sharing. A girl's night in  could consist of fun foods such fajitas washed down with slushy margaritas or homemade pizza with a variety of toppings. Crack open a good bottle of Pinot Grigio to go with it. It's a great time to dish on bosses and coworkers and diss those annoying family members. Finish with tiramisu and coffee  to gear up for the ride home.

Sometimes just a picnic for two is all that's needed. If you have a friend or relative who has suffered any kind of loss, time away from his or her house can be a blessing. Make their favorite recipes for lunch or dinner and then provide a good listening ear and a warm plate. Think a Sunday afternoon at the mountains or the beach. The weather in some areas is perfect for a brisk outdoor nosh, Pack a picnic basket with sandwiches, chips and something to drink. If it's a bit nippy think about a thermos of soup or filling it with hot coffee or hot tea. End with fruit of the season, such as crisp apples and/or pears. You can even include homemade cupcakes or ones from your favorite bakery. Another idea is going to a coffee shop and just sit outside to talk or people watch. Sometimes a person who is hurting just   wants to talk to  reminisce and seek out advice. He or she may need more than a shoulder to cry on. Spoil them with a cappuccino and a sweet treat.

Food unites us. It always has. It is the the great comforter and tie that connects us all.