A Quiet Powerhouse IN The Diner Industry

It takes a lot of guts and determination to run any eating establishment.  You have to be strong to deal with suppliers yet kind when dealing with all sorts of customers. Eva Diakakis was one of these diner owners. She owned the Famed Bendix Diner on Route 17 in Hasbrouck Heights , New Jersey for a number of years. She brought home cooking  and comfort to people who needed both.

The Bemdix Diner on it's own is a salute to Jersey  diner history. It started in the 1940's , named after the nearby Bendix  Corporation. It was a popular spot thanks to it's location in the middle of Route 17 and near Route 46. Eva and her husband John bought it and then had their son  John took over.They were from the beautiful island of Kos, just south of another lovely Greek isle, Karpathos. They brought their recipes to the states , settling in New York. Their son John,a former comedian took over the diner. He rose to local fame through documentaries.He is legally blind yet expertly took over the diner from his parents.His three sons, Michael Anthony and Dimitri helped their yiayia or Granny with cooking .She taught them an amazing slew of recipes that are still being made for diners today.Yet it was Eva;s kindness and caring that stood out. She knew her customers well and became family to them. She was that to mine, always treating my Mom with such kindness and friendliness. She knew her and my brother's favorite dishes along with mine.

Her food was amazing. She knew my brother was a vegetarian and went out for her way to make vegan soups like a tomato basil for him. She and their cook Julio whipped original vegan dishes for him as well. He loves his mashed potatoes and Eva always made sure he had a big plate of them, airily whipped and as light as a meringue. However it was her French fries that shone. They were crisp and tasty , a specialty of both her and her other son Chris. Of course there were Greek specialties that she also made for her fellow Kossians and Karpathians. (she went to high school on Karpathos because Kos was such a small island it couldn't afford one). Eva was a truly spiritual and virtuous individual who followed all the Greek Orthodox fasting days .She read the Bible daily and also made special breads for the church. She also had special breads for her customers like us too. They were always a treat, thickly sliced and spread with a generous layer of butter.

There will never be another Eva Diakakis, She was a gentle soul yet one with a steel backbone. She guided her family and business with such will and force. She made a huge impact on their and on her customers who became family to her.

Diner Favorites

 New Jersey is the state of diners. Although we don;t have as many as we used to , they are still the eatery of choice for so many New Jerseyans. Yet no matter where you are there is some kind of diner that offers up loaded potato skins,gigantic slices of French toast or shrimp scampi 24/7. 

The question is what's your favorite diner food?Mine is a turkey burger with a shareable  plate of crispy golden fries.There has to be a tall icy Pepsi with those too. What do you like at your favorite diner? The lemon meringue pie with that giant puff of meringue on top. A large bowl of chicken noodle soup? Or some thing reflecting many diner owner's heritage - Greek food - moussaka or dolmades stuffed grape leaves. Let us know.

Verdant Sides

 Sometimes a Thanksgiving dinner needs some livening up. There should be splashes of color amongst the tans and browns along with a fresh harvest taste. It;s time to add some greens, purples and red to have a vibrant lively table.

Regular contributor Melissa Clark wrote about this and created recipes for her A Good Appetite column in yesterday's New York Times Wednesday Food section. Vegetables are an excellent addition to any table. They add nutrients and vitamins to a starchy, high caloric meal. Their flavor is also a nice change up too, providing afresh from the garden taste amidst all the bread and gravy. The first recipe is a springy green beans with lime and red onions. These have to be made right when you're ready to serve the turkey but  it's not a labor intensive dish.Herbs  such as coriander and lime juice bring them to life. Another Thanksgiving dish that gets a makeover is squash. It's sliced and de -seeded and then glazed with maple syrup. Home chefs can use any combination of squash - delicata, honey nut, butternut and kabocha. Charred lemon give it that zing that goes well with the maple which is also mixed with butter and pepper.  The lemons is first boiled This is spread over the squash and lemons and then pan roasted.

The other dishes are just as bright and tasty.Every Thanksgiving table needs a salad. WHy not have one that features ruby red cabbage highlighted with  walnuts and feta .Cabbage wedges are first roasted to bring out their sweetness. Feta adds creaminess and saltiness, a perfect foil for the cabbage's sweetness. Walnuts are added for crunch, Pomegranate seeds add crunch and more flavor. The dressing is a vinaigrette punched up with Dijon mustard. Another side which would even be great at any holiday party is a giant roasted vegetable platter. THis is perfect for those who like to pick and choose their sides.This is a roasted mix of purple, white or yellow cauliflower and winter squash such as kabocha, delicata butternut or honey nut. There's also broccoli or broccolini fennel and carrots. It requires three parchment lined sheets and the roasting times all vary for the veggies. Broccoli takes takes ten to fifteen minutes fed onions fifteen to twenty, fennel twenty to twenty-five cauliflower twenty-five to thirty-five, squash thirty to thirty-five and carrots thirty to forty minutes(actually airfrying them will be shorter timewise). The dressing is a garlicky yogurt, spiked with lemon juice,THis is drizzled on the veggies along with apple cider vinegar and hot honey (this is mixed with red chili flakes.). It's a pick and choose platter for fussy guests.

Give Thnaksgiving a burst of color with these veggie dishes. They're exciting and tasty. They're the perfect foil for all those tans and browns of the holiday table.

Traditions With A Twist

 Imagine turning Thanksgiving on its'head. It would be an exciting meal, full of surprieses yet  still have the same flavors. It would certainly stun family and friends.

Regular contributor and chef Sohla El Waylly gave an interesting spin of these recipes in today's New York Times Wednesday Food section.Instead of turkey she offers up friend chicken(!!!!!) instead of turkey. This is perfect for those who fight over wings and legs for crunch.It has an herb rub redolent with Thanksgiving flavors such as sage and parsley. The chicken is first brined in a mix of salt sugar and MSG.Each piece is thinly coated in flour for optimum crispiness.Are there mashed potatoes and gravy? Yes! The mashed potatoes have more of a potato chip flavor with the addition of sour cream and onion.A container of sour cream and onion powder are added to Yukon Gold mashed . Scallions are whipped in to it in the end, givcing a kind of colcannon flavor and look.As for the gravy it;s not the bland turkey kind but one that has the zingy kick of Colman;s hot mustard. Blackened shallots are added to it for an onion-y taste. The base is chicken broth to match the fried chicken and turmeric is added for color. There is also a quick dill pickl recipe that would be not only perfect for Thanksgiving but the summer holidays too.It's redolent with coriander, garlic and dill. For more Thanksgiving flavors try the crushed green bean salad with dried  cranberries

Sweet potatoess are also featured here but not in the usual form.Theseare smothered in cheddar fora sweet and savory twist. They first sauteed in butter ans then roasted in the oven with a layer of flour and cheddar.Of course there is traditional Thanksgiving baking.Chef El Waylly includes everyone's favorite pull apart dinner rolls.This is an enriched bread made with four whole eggs and whole milk and cream.They kneaded dough is generously brushed with butter and then cut with a knife .This makes them easy to break into two. After an egg wash for shine , they're left to rise. They're baked for only eighteen to twenty minutes in a 350 degree Farenheit oven. As with any Thanksgiving dinner the dessert is the real show stopper. Again Chef El Waylly doesn't  disappoint. There's her pumpkin pecan sheet cake.It has the same spicy pumpkin pie taste as the really thing but not that goopy feel of filling. The topping is a crunchy almost butterscotch coated pecan. Butter brown sugar and corns yrup are cooked into a syrup and then let to cool. It's poured over the cake and then chopped pecans are sprinkled on top.It would be great with a side dollop of creme fraiche .

Thanksgiving doesn't have to be traditional.It can  be fun and exciting with flavors redone. Try it for an entirely  different holiday. 

Smashing Potatoes

 Smashed potatoes are a popular dish right now. They're a relatively easy recipe that has a few ingredients.It can be used for a side but also fro a main course.

I wanted to try them after writing about them so much. I bought small potatoes from Lidl

It was then boiling them  for fifteen minutes in water.

Afterwards it was smashing them with a cup's bottom

They kind of look like potato pancakes. It was then time for the air fryer.

It was first a bath in olive oil along with salt and pepper.The basket was sprayed to prevent the potatoes from sticking

It was then first ten minutes in the air fryer at 400 degrees Farenheit . They were then shaken and fried for another ten minutes

This was the first  batch.They were burnt a little and crispy. The second bath was much better. with a meaty inside crispy edges.

These are the perfect sides but with a side of sour cream and a salad would make a perfect meal. Try them and taste their deliciousness.

A Side of Exciting

 Many home chefs dread Thanksgiving because they wind up making the same recipes year after year. It's the same with Sunday dinners. However there are sides that can liven up any dish. They're tasty and fun,

Potatoes are always a big thing in any holiday menu.TRy air fryer smashed. ones This is an easy make..It;s first boiling either the smaller red and yellow potatoes for fifteen to twnety minutes. Let them cool and then smash with a glass's bottom. These are then tossed in oil and various seasonings and out into the air fryer until they're crispy as French fries, Air fried smashed are a crunchy alternatives to mashed and they're not only perfect with turkey but also with London Broil and chicken. A more elegant side arescalloped potatoes , especially if they're made with creme fraiche.It added a richness and a tang. Sweet potatoes are another Thanksgiving side. Yet imagine turning them into fries or chips to be fried to a tasty crisp in the air fryer.It;s a nice change up from having them covered on brown sugar and marashmallow.Any  roto vegetable, including parsnips and carrots can also be sheet pan cook. Roasting brings out the sweetness and earthiness in all of them. Just sprinkle them with olive oil and then sea salt and freshly ground pepper for taste.

Greens can also shine and be turned into exciting sides. A fun citrus and kale salad is a bright extra to any meal. This is a mix of the good for you green  with tangerine or orange wedges and a honey lemon vinaigrette. You can also sauteed it and liven it up with a squeeze of lemon and hot pepper. It;'s just sauteing the leaves (get rid of the stems because they're too chewy) in olive oil with a bit of butter or plant butter. Add a small clove of minced garlic and then the pepper and lemon. Brussells sprouts are a holiday must have but many don;t like them because of their smell and taste. A good idea is serving them Piedmontese style drenched in melted butter and covered with Parmesan cheese. This is a wonderful way to serve them. Another is slicing them in half and then air frying them  after an olive oil bath. This turns the leaves into crispy edges that are perfect with any kind of poultry. Green beans are good too, Think of them with an Asian twist,Stir fry with soy sauce  and ginger for a true holiday change up. You can easily do this in a frying pan if you don;t have a wok. Cook with olive or sesame oil and then add a good tablespoon or two of the soy sauce and a teaspoon of grated ginger. 

Sides do not have to be boring. They can be exciting and fun. Liven up your holiday table with them. It's a delicious change up from  ordinary sides.

Stuffing Choices

 Even though it's a side stuffing is important to the Thanksgiving dinner. The question is what kind will you make? Will it be a quick stove top one or will it be a family recipe scratch one? If that's the case then what to put into it.

SInce I am a big  -all right - huge Lidl fan I went with their cornbread stuffing. All their products are super tasty so I was excited to buy this. Also it;s an easy stove top one that just requires half a stick of butter or margarine and a half cup of water. I want an easy everything this holiday, I don];t have the time to fret over ingredients.

Everything is premixed and preseasoned exactly.It'll be an easy cook on top of the stove while the Tofurky takes up the the oven.

If I had chosen to make the homemade version, I;'d probably use the family recipes that came from my grandfather's family in Swabia, Southern Germany. This is  really a  savory  bread pudding, redolent with celery and sage. egg and some milk is mixed with white bread (although sometimes we used stale Italiian and French bread) it has a crispy crust from being in the oven and it was perfect for absorbing gravy. Other people put sausage or add rice .  There is also a wild mushroom stuffing in which the mushrooms are mixed into a  traditional bread one.Stuffing can  be baked as one big pudding or into ramekins. Again this is up to you and the amount of people you'll be serving.

Home chefs can go the easy route with a stovetop stuffing or the more laborious one with a scratch  one. It's up to what they can handle. Either one is perfect for Thanksgiving,